This is the million dollar question. It can be different for every Earthling on our Space Ship Earth. This is because each Earthling has a a unique brain. This makes it possible for each Earthling to use their senses to process events in a unique way. Meaning the same event can be different for every Earthling. This is evidenced by asking Earthlings who have witnessed the same event what they saw, heard, smelled or felt. Even when Earthlings experience the same event it is from each one’s own unique perspective. So the reality of the event is what it is, but unique to each Earthling.
This is interesting because reality is the actual occurrence of events. What makes the event different is it’s observation by Earthlings. It is like when an accident or a like event happens. In the case of an accident the reality is that there are smashed cars, hurt Earthlings and damaged property. Ask the Earthlings who witnessed it and you can have as many perspectives as those who saw it. Earthlings interact by saying, doing or feeling things. Each will have a different perspective of what was said, done or felt in this interaction. Each Earthling will have a different take of what happened in any event they are a part off. Just ask siblings in a family if their recollection of an event that they shared is the same. Each will most likely have a different perspective of what was experienced.
So what is reality? From what has been said above, reality is two things. It is a perception of an event by each unique Earthling involved. It is also the actual events that occurred, aside from the perceptions of it. That being said then the perception may not be the reality of the situation. This can be the cause of a lot of frustration between Earthlings. In our world today there is strife, arguing, anger and other negative emotions because of this disagreement about a shared experience of reality. This being because of that uniqueness that is each Earthling.
So then how do we deal with this situation of perceived reality? Being aware that this is what happens is the first thing. That we as Earthlings do not always see reality in the same way. Honor that we are unique and will not always see events the same way or agree about ideas. It is okay for each unique Earthling to have their own unique view of reality and their own ideas. If there is disagreement about an event then ask ‘Is it important t be right or just honor our self and another as the unique beings we are?’. Know that each Earthling is unique. We do not always sense things in the same way. Reality is what it is. A perception of reality can be as many as there our Earthlings on our Space Ship Earth.
Hopefully this discussion will give you something to think about the next time your perceived reality doesn’t agree with a fellow Earthling. Each of us is unique in our own way. Most Earthlings have their own idea about what reality is. This may or may not be what reality is. So a perception of reality is as unique as there are Earthlings on our planet earth. Yet there is truly only the reality of what actually is and does occurs.